My Sun - Gemini - His Sun - Virgo
We are both intellectual creatures, more rational than emotional,
and we have a good mental rapport. We both love to talk and we appreciate
one another's wit. He, however, has a more practical, down-to-earth
turn of mind, while I just enjoys playing with ideas, without needing a
purpose or practical application for them. I am also more of a risk-taker
and will gladly do something once "just for the experience" while He
is more careful, cautious, and discriminating. For the most part, however,
we understand each other well, and can be quite compatible.
My Sun in His 1st House
I embodies many of the qualities and attributes to which
He aspires, and consequently I am a very interesting
and attractive person to Him.
His Sun in my 12th House
Even if we would be together for many years, He
will continue to be intriguing and somewhat mysterious
to me. We have a knack for uncovering each other's
hidden or repressed traits, and there are a deep,
mysterious, perhaps even mystical quality to our relationship.
Sun conjunct Mercury
Ours is an intellectual relationship, among other things. Exchanging thoughts,
studying together, sharing information, talking and bantering, turning one
another on to new books or ideas, sparking one another's curiosity and interest
in the world all of these are important aspects of our relationship. A certain
detachment and the ability to think about and talk about what is going on
between us are also highlighted. Put simply, becoming more conscious or more
informed and educated is a significant reason the two of us are drawn together.
Sun conjunct Venus
Quite simply, one of our purposes to be together would be to create and express
beauty, whether this is in the form of a beautiful, loving relationship,
or gracious and artful works. There could also be an element of vanity, artifice,
or showoffiness the desire to be seen and recognized as a Beautiful Couple,
whether or not that's entirely true. Hiding or downplaying our difficulties
and the "uglies" in our relationship would be helpful to a point, but
if we would try to maintain this image of ourselves as a happy, loving twosome
despite our actual conflicts, then deeper troubles may never get attended to.
However, whatever friction, dissonance, or ill will develops between us, there
will also always be an urge to harmonize, reconcile, and ease our differences,
and to create cooperation. It will take a lot for the two of us to ever turn
against each other entirely.
My Moon - Taurus - His Moon - Scorpio
Both of us are rather obstinate and inflexible, and cannot
be easily moved once we've made up our mind. Nor does logic
or reason work wonders with either of us, when we decide
we want something. When the two of us lock horns, it's a
matter of which of us wears down first!
Of the two of us, I am the more practical and down to earth.
A loving, stable home, creature comforts, and peaceful
relationships are my ideal. I have a much simpler emotional
nature than Him, and is much more easily contented.
His feelings run very deep. He loves intensely, but
is also capable of tremendous animosity and hostility if hurt
or betrayed. He has a very private, secretive side and
often hides feelings or withdraws from people as a means of
self-protection. Anger, guilt, and jealousy are emotions
He frequently keeps hidden inside.
All of this is rather incomprehensible to me, though I do
share with Him the tendency to be possessive with a love partner.
He also demands much more from a partner in terms of
emotional involvement, intimacy, and depth. He doesn't
accept anything at face value, and it may seem to me that
He is always probing, analyzing feelings, and thereby
making unnecessary trouble.
There is a strong magnetic attraction between us, and we
can be very, very close, especially if we learn to appreciate
one another's ways.
My Moon in His 1st House
My family background and domestic life has a striking
effect on Him. He may feel "adopted" by my family
or find that my life style and home makes him feel extremely
comfortable and at peace.
His Moon in my 1st House
His family background and domestic life has a striking
effect on me. I may feel "adopted" by His family
or find that His life style and home makes me feel
extremely comfortable and at peace.
Moon conjunct Mercury
Through our relationship with one another, and especially our intimate
conversations, both of us will understand our past histories, our emotions,
and our own inner lives much more clearly. Being in one another's presence
evokes in both of us the desire to confide, to tell our stories, to speak
about our private selves. We are able to talk for hours. There is often a
sentimental or nostalgic tone to our discussions. Visiting old childhood
haunts together, studying our family trees, looking at and discussing old
photographs, describing our dreams to each other, talking about our children
or our mate or parents this type of sharing will be a crucial aspect of our
bond. Even if we are not the sort of persons who discuss feelings or readily
confides in others, we'll find that with this particular person, we can and
will. We make good counselors for one another.
At times we may feel that our discussions are too subjective, or always become
personal even when the initial topic is broad and rather impersonal. For the
two of us, emotional attitudes and feelings will always color our communication.
This is an essential part of the purpose of our relationship: examining feelings
and the past in order to understand them.
Moon conjunct Venus
There is an especially sweet, tender, nurturing love between us which fosters
a successful and fulfilling closeness. It is natural for us to take care of one
another and devote ourselves to each other. We feel protective, caring, concerned
with each other's wellbeing, and seem instinctively to know how to make each
other happy. The destiny of our lovebond is to make life sweeter, more comforting,
more beautiful for us both. The urge to be a family and make a home together will
predominate.
Our chances for a very loving relationship are high, because this love we share
will soften many of the blows or difficulties life sends our way. Ours is destined
to be a lasting love for one another.
Moon square Jupiter
Humor, laughter, and exuberant high spirits tone our entire relationship.
If we just want to feel good, being with one another will do it. There is
a feeling of easiness and comfort between us, and if either of us tends to
be too serious or pessimistic, being together can offset this. We will lighten
each other up and be able to see the funny or absurd side of things together.
If we share a home, it will be a very comfortable, hospitable, congenial place
to be, and as a couple we will generously open our home to others. Together it
will also be easy for us to attain and enjoy a high degree of prosperity and
material comfort. If there are any drawbacks here, one would perhaps be that
the two of us could become too comfortable, too cushioned, too smug. In any case,
however, we will inevitably enjoy and be richly blessed in our relationship with
one another. In very simple terms, just to be happy is one of the reasons our
relationship exists.
Moon square Neptune
There is an aspect of the two of us being together that
can be very tricky to manage. Even if both of us are
decidedly realistic, practical, sensible people, when
we are together we have a real blind spot. We cannot see
certain problems in one another or in our relationship
very clearly, and we may deceive ourselves or live on
false hope regarding the effects of these problems if
we acknowledge them at all.
Emotionally we are extremely sensitive and "tuned in"
to one another, so much so that we may be unable to
distinguish the other's feelings and moods from our own.
We absorb and take on one another's emotions very readily.
This blurring of emotional boundaries is the source of
confusion or disorientation, and it may also give us
the false belief that we can save, rescue, or fix the
other person's dilemmas. If, however, we can avoid that
trap, the two of us have an enormous potential for
spiritual development together. Essentially, in this
relationship the spiritual or soul needs take precedence
over the practical or material concerns.
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